Name: Caroline Grossman
E-Mail: thegrossmans@cox.net
Date: 10 Aug 2007
Time: 23:39:21

Comments

Just checking in to see if there were any updated photographs of the girls. I knew Heidi from Insight For Moms. I am so pleased to hear of the good things that have recently come your way and praying for you and your family.

Name: David Eckles
E-Mail: dave@ecklesfamily.org
Date: 13 Mar 2007
Time: 19:02:21

Comments

MY DEEPEST APOLOGIES to the person who left the last guestbook entry! As you can see, it has been lost. I didn't have a backup of the file that contains the guestbook entries so when the server hosting the website crashed, all I had left was the original file. I remember that it was an encouraging message from someone who attends Insight for Moms, but that's about it.

Name: Tabitha McCray
E-Mail: totalpackage_1@frontiernet.net
Date: 20 Feb 2006
Time: 04:50:40

Comments

I wanted to write and say, This note is for you and the girls Dave. We are thinking of you at this time and want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. We celebrate Heidi's life by lighting 6 candles in her honor on Feb.19th. We miss her very much and are reminded of her wonderful life that was shared with all of us here on earth. Her memory is kept alive in our family and her pictures of her smiling face keeps me on the up and up and keeps me going on those hard days. She is greatly missed and will always be remembered by all of us McCrays.

Heidi: We are thinking of you today and every day and we love you. Your memory is kept alive by us always! We love and miss you more than words can say.
Love, Tabitha, Clint, Mariah, Spencer, Zachuriah and Caleb McCray*

Name: Jennifer
E-Mail: schultzshart@aol.com
Date: 09 Feb 2006
Time: 10:16:47

Comments

I am very sorry for your loss. It seems as though your doing ok. The girls are beautiful. Children are such a blessing, and they can often help you cope as much as you help them. God Bless You And Your Children.

Name: Debbie McCoy
E-Mail: Deb@loanstarmrtg.com
Date: 10 Jan 2006
Time: 15:46:26

Comments

Dave, I am a friend of Heidi's from high school, we have been exchanging Christmas cards for years now. I was sad to learn about Heidi's passing she was and still is a very special person. I loved this web site and all the pictures. I gotten pictures when you got married, and Mary first Christmas. You have done a wonderful job with this web site.

Heidi talked about you at our 20 reunion and it was good to see her happy and to know that she meet the man of her dreams.

I will pray for you and the girls - I will always remember Heidi - and keep sending Christmas cards.

Debbie McCoy - High school friend

Name: Judith Slentz/George Butler
E-Mail: judithslentz@hotmail.com
Date: 05 Jan 2006
Time: 09:05:24

Comments

Dave, your Christmas letter was beautiful. The Lord has blessed you with a strong recovery.

Name: Kathleen Gilmartin
E-Mail: kgilmartin@sundt.com
Date: 02 Dec 2005
Time: 15:10:46

Comments

What a wonderful site for all of us who called Heidi a friend to remember how special she is.

Name: Alicia Cruz
E-Mail: alicia_cruz@yahoo.com
Date: 04 Nov 2005
Time: 00:33:54

Comments

Wow Dave! Lots of time and love have went into your heartwarming website. I am so blessed that you have chosen to share it. It was an awesome idea. I didn't know Heidi personally but I was a regular attendee of Insight for Moms for the past 5 years. My husband Daniel and I have 3 little ones, ages 5, 4 and 2. We too have a Phoenix zoo membership. I take my kids to ride the carousel and they love it. I'll always remember you, Heidi and your girls and will say a prayer each time I visit the zoo. Keep your eyes on Jesus! In Him, Alicia Cruz 11-3-05

Name: Your third kid
E-Mail: babyblue_519@juno.com
Date: 29 Oct 2005
Time: 15:46:43

Comments

Hey Daddy, I'm sorry I haven't been able to keep in touch as much as I'd like. I think I'm a little intimidated or scared or...I can't really get the right word but everything begins to hurt when I see how much the girls are growing and knowing that I can't be there for them. I guess I figure if I try to forget about it, it won't hurt as much. The truth is that I still can't fully comprehend or grasp the concept that Heidi's gone...it doesn't seem right that on your anniversary you should have to sit on a bench alone and wish for the feeling of her head on your shoulder and you shouldn't have to stare at an empty seat. I miss her hilarious sayings and the way she used to just light up a room... I can't imagine what it would be like - it kills me to think of losing someone so close to me and it hurts even worse to know that my dad's hurting and I can't be there to give you a hug or just a smile to help you get through the hard days. I wish more than anything that we could be closer, that I could watch the girls grow up every day instead of seeing pictures or hearing descriptions of how big Sara is and how smart both of them are. I want to be their big sister but for some reason it's not in God's plans right now for us to be closer. I think about you and the girls all of the time...even if we don't talk for a while I think about you every day and my heart is with you every day because I can't be there in person. I love you, Daddy... Please give my little sisters a kiss and hug not just from mommy but from their big sister too.

Name: Noreen Majercak
E-Mail: toppy.11@netzero.com
Date: 20 May 2005
Time: 16:38:35

Comments

Dave: It has taken me a while to get to this, I thought I was stronger than I am. I seem to want to ignore the fact that Heidi is gone, even though I know she is watching over you, Mary and Sarah. I pray every day for her, you and your two angels. We all have guardian angels, and you must know the girls have Heidi with them at all times. She was a special person in my life and included me in Mary's life by calling me Gramma Nor. E-mail or call me anytime I will be in touch
Love Noreen

Name: Florence L. Bramlett
E-Mail: fbramlett@qwest.net
Date: 18 May 2005
Time: 08:49:43

Comments

I just wanted to drop you a line and let you know how very sorry I am for your loss. My prayers are with you and the girls always. Keep your chin up and pointing forward for you have much to look forward to with two beautiful girls.
Sincerely,
Florence Bramlett
NAWIC Tucson Chapter 122

Name: Linda Litle
E-Mail: sdwic@cox.net
Date: 17 May 2005
Time: 22:02:44

Comments

Dave -

What a wonderful tribute to Heidi! No one can ever imagine how hard this has been for you. Thank you for the insight through your diary.

God bless you and the girls.

Name: Cherie Schmidt
E-Mail:
Date: 12 May 2005
Time: 15:01:33

Comments

Very nice! Thank you for sending it to me.
Your girls are beautiful.
Sincerely,
Cherie Schmidt
East Resthaven

Name: Katrina
E-Mail: babyblue_519@juno.com
Date: 09 May 2005
Time: 22:38:21

Comments

Hey Dad - I just wanted to let you know that I think about you and the girls all of the time. It's hard being so far away from you and knowing that I can't be a close daughter to you nor a big sister to the girls. You three are ALWAYS in my heart and on my mind and even though we don't talk every day, you, Mary, and Sarah have a special place in my heart and you always will. I love you very much, Dad and even though we're so far apart, I'll still be your little girl. I'm so proud of you - words can't express how much I'm amazed at how far you've come and the strength that you have is encouraging. I hope God has blessed me with a fraction of the strength and the heart that he has blessed you with. I love you. Please give the girls a kiss and hug from their big sis. :)

Name: Gregg and Gail Burnham
E-Mail: gailburnham@hotmail.com
Date: 02 May 2005
Time: 15:59:00

Comments

Dave,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember what a good dad you were to your daughter Katrina back in Career LIfe days, I know the Lord will give you the strength when you are weak to endure and the grace to give you beauty for ashes and joy for mourning.. in time.

We have 4 children and our youngest we almost lost, he wasn't supposed to live until 1 and now just had his second birthday. May the Lord hold you and your girls always.

We will be praying for you Dave and Mary and Sarah Grace.
God Bless.
Love ,
Gregg and Gail Burnham

Name: Melissa Collette
E-Mail: alwaysacaligirl81@yahoo.com
Date: 02 May 2005
Time: 14:19:50

Comments

Dave,

When my mom and I were driving home from San Diego Saturday night, this song came on the radio and I could not help but think of Heidi and cry. I think you will agree, it is a beautiful song and so fitting.

Love you.
Missy

Josh Groban - To Where You Are

Who can say for certain
Maybe you're still here
I feel you all around me
Your memories so clear

Deep in the stillness
I can hear you speak
You're still an inspiration
Can it be(?)
That you are mine
Forever love
And you are watching over me from up above

Fly me up to where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for awhile to know you're there
A breath away's not far
To where you are

Are you gently sleeping
Here inside my dream
And isn't faith believing
All power can't be seen

As my heart holds you
Just one beat away
I cherish all you gave me everyday
'Cause you are mine
Forever love
Watching me from up above

And I believe
That angels breathe
And that love will live on and never leave

Fly me up
To where you are
Beyond the distant star
I wish upon tonight
To see you smile
If only for awhile
To know you're there
A breath away's not far
To where you are

I know you're there
A breath away's not far
To where you are

Name: Michele Tanico
E-Mail: imnvegas2003@msn.com
Date: 28 Apr 2005
Time: 21:03:45

Comments

Dear Family and Friends,

I am so sorry to hear about this! Heidi was such a pleasant and kind person that I am sure not only touched my heart but everyone else's as well. May she rest in peace.

Take care,

Michele Tanico.

Name: rebecca
E-Mail: beccachelle5@yahoo.com
Date: 28 Apr 2005
Time: 10:48:29

Comments

I know you don't know me. but I have heard about your family through Melissa she has been my sisters best friend for years (Katy) You are a very strong man to be able to do what you do. You wife I know is so proud of you, As your girls get older they will realize what a special and wonderful father they have.  Best wishes and continue to do as you are. With all my sincerity and respect, Becca

Name: Katy Coddington
E-Mail: katybuginaz@yahoo.com
Date: 25 Apr 2005
Time: 09:38:56

Comments

Hi Dave, Mary, and Sarah!

Just wanted to let you know that your in my thoughts and prayers every day..and I'm constantly checking your "blog" to see how things are going in the Eckles home. Let me know if there is anything I can do..anytime! I absolutely love the pictures of Mary and Sarah that Melissa shares with me. Your girls are so beautiful!

Sincerely,

Katy Coddington

Name: Earl Howard
E-Mail: earlhow@email.com
Date: 21 Apr 2005
Time: 09:39:29

Comments

I didn't know your wife Heidi Marie Eckles, but I have been touched by your story. Please know that you and the girls will be in my daily prayers. God bless you all.
Prayerfully
Chaplain Howard
Banner Desert Medical Center

Name: Carlene Weberg
E-Mail: carlene.weberg@cgcmail.maricopa.edu
Date: 20 Apr 2005
Time: 12:55:44

Comments

So sorry to hear of your wife's passing. The Chandler-Gilbert IT department will certainly remember you and your family in their thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,

Carlene Weberg
Chandler-Gilbert
Business Secretary

Name: Gloria Askland
E-Mail: gaskland@citlink.net
Date: 20 Apr 2005
Time: 10:56:36

Comments

Dave:

What a beautiful tribute to Heidi. I became friends with her through NAWIC, the Phoenix Chapter. Thank you so much for sharing all your thoughts, the beautiful pictures and for the greatest memories of all. You are such a wonderful and blessed servant of Christ - you know Heidi is with you. She is Sarah and Mary's angel watching over them and giving you strength when times are down for you. You are an inspiration for all of us. The website is the most beautiful gift of all. It fills the void I have in my heart. Your heart is being filled with so many that care and love you - especially your little girls.

God bless you and guide you with His love.

Love,

Gloria Askland

Name: Bob Dorsch
E-Mail: bob@andrekole.org
Date: 18 Apr 2005
Time: 10:09:38

Comments

Name: Claudia Varga
E-Mail: vargacookies@qwest.net
Date: 14 Apr 2005
Time: 09:02:24

Comments

Dave~
I just saw that I gave you my "old" email. The corrected one is listed.
Marin said she spent time with you and the girls on Sunday. The report is that your children are beautiful and you are an amazing dad!
Remember, I'm an email/phone call away!
Claudia Varga

Name: Peggy Krueger
E-Mail: pkrueger@calence.com
Date: 12 Apr 2005
Time: 12:39:55

Comments

How are you doing Dave? I enjoyed your site this morning even though I should be working on my payroll. Some things just are more important. I love that song "Untitled Hymne". I must have played it 10 times. I hope it didn't bother Krista and Barry although they said they loved it. You ought to be a writer. Your blog is (forgive me) so enjoyable and well written. I don't mean to say that I am enjoying your memories and tears certainly but rather your insight into raising 2 little girls alone and your thoughts on the after-life. I am reading, along with Rollie, every night a chapter in "The Purpose-Driven Life". What a thought-provoking book. It has benn on the best seller's list for 2 years. According to the author, based on scripture, life as we know it on earth is just temporary. God has created us individually to take care of what he has given us and we will be judged in the end on how we used it. Sometimes it makes me feel guilty about wanting and needing things when it's all temporary. Our riches await us in heaven with Christ. It's a thought that needs to dominate our daily lives. The only thing we can take with us in the end is our love. My sister, Mary, and I always have these discussions when we get together especially since our dad died a couple of years ago. What happened to him? Is he save and resting? Does he see us? etc. That's why I found your thoughts comforting to me. What's our purpose here on earth if not for something better? Life would be meaningless without a life-after. That's my hope anyway. Sorry to have gone on and on. I think it's a part of getting old. Dave, keep up the good work and remember you are doing the work of the Lord everyday and someone is comforted by that...2 people that I know of...Heidi and Christ. Take care and better days ahead. Peggy

Name: Tink Golamb
E-Mail: tgolamb@mac.com
Date: 12 Apr 2005
Time: 09:17:06

Comments

Dave, I was shocked to hear of Heidi's passing. I still can't believe it has happened. Although I didn't see much of you guys, Dave Helzer kept me informed of your activities from time to time.

Tink

Name: Kristi Wells
E-Mail: kristiwells@comcast.net
Date: 11 Apr 2005
Time: 12:46:32

Comments

I just wanted to let you know that we will be praying for you and your family. May God bring peace and comfort to you and yours.

God Bless,

Kristi Wells
Tennessee
Mommy to Lawson
www.caringbridge.org/tn/lawson

Name: Rosemarie Haight
E-Mail: AnnaRG6@MSN.com
Date: 10 Apr 2005
Time: 22:19:40

Comments

The pictures of Heidi and Mary are very touching.  Thank You.
May God bless you all.
Rosemarie

Name: kp
E-Mail: kprnfa@cox.net
Date: 10 Apr 2005
Time: 22:18:37

Comments

the pictures of the baby are adorable and the ones of Heidi must be painful and joyful at the same time.

Name: Zac & Melissa Robinson
E-Mail: playgroupsnow@yahoo.com
Date: 10 Apr 2005
Time: 08:35:34

Comments

Wow! Our hearts are broken. Words just don't' even mean much. You don't know us but we will be praying for you, Jesus knows your needs and we were so glade to see you knew him. If you need a sitter for some alone time please don't hesitate.

Name: Claudia Varga
E-Mail: vargacookies@aol.com
Date: 09 Apr 2005
Time: 14:39:51

Comments

Dave~
I am Geoffrey Varga's mom. Geoff and Melissa have been dating for a while now. Also, I am good friends (work with) Marin Troutt and Andrea Dinardo. My husband, George, and I have been at Grace CC for about 12 years. I have told Melissa and I will tell you, too, that I am available for you. I know you don't know me, but I just want you to know that I would consider it a privilege to serve you in any way that would be helpful to you. (I also direct a Christian preschool - if that offers any credibility! :) )
Your website is beautiful, as are your girls!
I will continue to pray for you and your children.
Blessings to you,
Claudia Varga

Name: Lee Morgan
E-Mail: leedarlingaz@cox.net
Date: 09 Apr 2005
Time: 08:42:00

Comments

Heidi was a very special lady, but she really shined when she was with Mary. I will miss her, but our time together at NAWIC functions will always be special.
Lee

Name: Sarah and Bruce Fuller
E-Mail: bruceandsarah@cox.net
Date: 08 Apr 2005
Time: 18:29:37

Comments

Dear Dave, what a beautiful memorial to a wonderful friend! I was just getting to know Heidi and Mary as good friends, and this is such a great tribute! Thank you for sharing your pictures and memories with us. Love, Sarah and Bruce Fuller

Name: Sally & Bill McMullen
E-Mail: salmac@cybertrails.com
Date: 07 Apr 2005
Time: 11:24:29

Comments

Dave
What a wonderful honor to Heidi to have such a beautiful web sight keeping her memories alive. You have two beautiful daughters and I know that you are a Godly man who is also a wonderful Mr. Mom. Keep our phone number handy and if you need anything just call.

Name: Jennifer Deutsch
E-Mail: jendeutsch@earthlink.net
Date: 07 Apr 2005
Time: 10:07:36

Comments

Dave - I am a friend of Karen Slater's and she had shared your story with me, I can honestly say I am touched by your strength and will keep you and your family in my prayers. What you are doing for your wife's memory and your girls' lives is amazing and I wish you all the best.

Name: Sandi Benzer
E-Mail: sbenzer@cox.net
Date: 06 Apr 2005
Time: 17:51:49

Comments

You've done a fantastic job with this website.

I miss Heidi every Wednesday at AWE. It's still hard to believe.

Name: Bob and Carol Webb
E-Mail: caroljwebb@cox.net
Date: 06 Apr 2005
Time: 11:30:26

Comments

Thanks for your website, Dave. What a help and comfort for us.
We continue to pray for you.

Don Duncan will be in town as he and I will be playing for Heather Vogt's wedding on April 16. I am in the midst of preparing to make a piano CD. Don and I will be recording a couple of pieces for it while he is here. I am very excited.

Heidi's service was incredible - I think of it so often and praise God for His faithfulness and the praise and worship that was His on that day!!

Love you Dave.

Carol

Name: Tom and Sue Dawson
E-Mail: tdawson5@worldnet.att.net
Date: 05 Apr 2005
Time: 17:24:51

Comments

Dave,
A very lovely tribute to Heidi. Once again, we would like to express our condolences to you and the family for your loss.

Tom & Sue

Name: Ginger Bergren
E-Mail: sbergren@cox.net
Date: 04 Apr 2005
Time: 01:31:54

Comments

Dave,
I think you are doing great! Again as I browse through this site (teary-eyed) to see how you three are doing, I'm reminded that Heidi is gone. Your log is brave for letting us share your lives) and precious (because you are experiencing what every parent does). Remember, Mary and Sarah will never remember if you gave them rice cereal early or if they cried a minute or two longer. They will not remember if you make a small mistake. They will remember you playing with them, holding them, the times you let them sleep with you and being loved. My aunt just passed on last week and somehow I know that Heidi will introduce herself and they will become friends also. Well, I will let you get some sleep. But know that Heidi is very proud of you and the "Super-Daddy" you have become.

Name: Karen Wondercheck
E-Mail: dksjj@netzero.com
Date: 03 Apr 2005
Time: 17:36:11

Comments

This is a beautiful Memorial. I did not even know Heidi, yet I knew you from Career Life, yet when I heard what happened, my heart went out to you and your girls. As a mom myself it cuts to the heart - it's a fear all moms have, yet seeing how God has provided for you and the girls is inspiring. Me and Daryl have prayed for you and will continue too. I think you are doing the right thing by making this Memorial - it's good for you and the girls and it blessed me. I made a Memorial Scrapbook for my mom when she died and it was the best thing I could've done. To let her life story be told to touch others.... God Bless You!

Name: Nicole and Matt Feliksa and family
E-Mail: nicole@goldensunmfg.com
Date: 01 Apr 2005
Time: 16:17:47

Comments

I can't believe this website... it is really amazing! Thank you for doing it to keep us informed. We attend Grace Community Church and have two boys (ages 2 1/2 and 5 months). We live in East Mesa and both work from home. Needless to say we were (and still are) grieved at the passing of Heidi even though we have never met her or your family to our knowledge. I (Nicole) attend Insight for Moms on Tuesdays and that is how we caught news of your story. We want you to know that we have been praying for you and your family.

God bless
the Feliksa family

Name: Audra Burtch
E-Mail: aburtch@cox.net
Date: 01 Apr 2005
Time: 15:17:43

Comments

Dave,

I didn't know Heidi personally, but have been a part of Insight for Moms at Grace. This website is a wonderful thing that you have done in her honor.

I have been deeply moved by your family's story and am in awe of God's amazing grace to give you strength and hope for each day. I can imagine that there are some really tough days, so know that I will keep your family in my prayers.

Your girls are beautiful and are very blessed to have a father who is committed to loving and caring for them.

May God's peace guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

Sincerely,
Audra Burtch

Name: Kat Kliphon
E-Mail: tokatslair@yahoo.com
Date: 01 Apr 2005
Time: 14:47:48

Comments

This is a wonderful page to honor Heidi. I only knew her at Insight for Moms, but she was a wonderful lady.

My prayers are with you and the family.

In Christ,
Kat

Name: Jaime Bradford
E-Mail: jaime5@cox.net
Date: 01 Apr 2005
Time: 12:37:57

Comments

I am so sorry for your loss...What a beautiful wife and mother Heidi was. I attend Insight at GCC and we all speak of her often.

In Him,
Jaime Bradford

Name: kathy_carmody@yahoo.com
E-Mail: kathy.carmody@jetblue.com
Date: 01 Apr 2005
Time: 11:03:03

Comments

The memorial service was great for me to hear because I was unable to be at Heidi's service. Thank you Dave for putting it on the web site. It was beautiful.

Name: Carrie Kearney
E-Mail: carrie.kearney@cox.net
Date: 31 Mar 2005
Time: 09:58:23

Comments

What a great tribute to Heidi! I knew her from Insight for Moms and got to spend a day with her at Kids Town one day last fall. I was impressed with her dedication to staying home with Mary. Our prayers are with you all.

Name: Elena Wortman
E-Mail: elena.wortman@aps.com
Date: 31 Mar 2005
Time: 09:08:14

Comments

Dave, Ron and I have prayed for you and your family often. May God bless and comfort you during this holy season.

Name: John and Karen Felty
E-Mail: jmfelty@cox.net
Date: 30 Mar 2005
Time: 18:32:16

Comments

Heidi,

We will miss you. You were one of the special people that makes an indelible impression on others. We look forward to seeing you again in heaven.

Dave,

We know that your strength comes from the Lord, and that you will not be tested beyond your abilities. We are here when you need us.

Live by the mile is a trial, live by the inch is a cinch.

John and Karen.

Name: Mary Ann Fritchie
E-Mail: mafritchie@comcast.net
Date: 30 Mar 2005
Time: 17:59:38

Comments

Yesterday I learned from Linda Vanderipe (mother of Bret Vanderipe and secretary at Riverside High School) that Heidi passed away last month. Linda forwarded this memorial page to me, and I'm thankful she did.

Heidi was a student of mine at Riverside High School. She was active in Riverside FBLA (Future Business Leaders of America) and held the office of president. I was unaware that she received a degree in business administration from Whitworth. I will always remember Heidi as a hardworking and caring individual.

God bless you and your children. I will keep you in my prayers.

Mary Ann Fritchie

Name: dave
E-Mail:
Date: 30 Mar 2005
Time: 13:37:43

Comments

Name: geneva perkins
E-Mail: geneva.perkins@cox.net
Date: 30 Mar 2005
Time: 12:00:07

Comments

Hi Dave,

It was sure nice talking to you yesterday. We think of you and the girls often and want you to know that we would be glad to do anything for you.

Once you feel you are able, let me know and I will get a few people together and we'll have an afternoon bar-b-que or something.

Have a great day!!!!!

Name: Jane Collette
E-Mail: imhereub2@yahoo.com
Date: 30 Mar 2005
Time: 11:18:14

Comments

Dave, Our prayers are with you and the girls.

Name: Brooke Munier
E-Mail: bmunier@calence.com
Date: 29 Mar 2005
Time: 14:21:31

Comments

Dave,
The memorial website is beautiful - a perfect tribute to Heidi. I was so saddened to hear of her tragic passing. I met Heidi shortly before my son, Joseph, was born in 2003. It was a few weeks after Mary's birth and Heidi brought her into the office for a visit. She gave me lots of tips and pointers from one new mom to another.

You have a beautiful family and you have shown incredible strength in getting your family through this difficult time. My family sends our love and good energy your way. You are often on our minds.

Love,
Brooke

Name: mat balgaard
E-Mail: pmat@azcc.org
Date: 29 Mar 2005
Time: 09:06:45

Comments

We love you guys!

Name: John A. MacDonald - Canada
E-Mail: johna@es-can.com
Date: 29 Mar 2005
Time: 07:40:13

Comments

Our prayers are with you and your family.

Name: Flo and Keith Harshbarger
E-Mail: flosplace@iglide.net
Date: 29 Mar 2005
Time: 01:46:17

Comments

Dear Dave and girls, We're so sorry to hear about Heidi. Its hard to realize that everything is already planned and we just have to "pull up our boot straps" and go one with good memories. I'm glad Katrina was able to come down and visit last week. I'll be looking for a picture of all the girls. Take care...Always Flo

Name: Jeff Allgaier
E-Mail: jeffallgaier@hotmail.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 22:49:23

Comments

Dave, am thinking about you guys. You're a fantastic guy and obviously a great dad. Look forward to spending more time with you and the girls.

Jeff

Name: nancy patterson
E-Mail: Np325@aol.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 22:12:14

Comments

Thanks dave, this is a beautiful way to share Heidi's memory.

Name: Paula Meyer
E-Mail: pmeyer15@hotmail.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 21:16:28

Comments

Dave:

You are an amazing person! You make me want to have my faith grow even stronger. God Bless You and those two beautiful little girls.

Paula Meyer

Name: Wayne & Dede Eckles
E-Mail: wdeckles57@msn.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 20:51:31

Comments

We think that this website is a great idea, and it is so well done. You have answered a lot of our questions. It sounds as if you are doing a great job of carrying on. Hope that you are getting some sleep.

Name: Wanda DeCrow
E-Mail: flcrow55@cox.net
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 19:46:50

Comments

What a neat idea! Thanks so much for taking the time to do this. I can't imagine anything more special. We think of you almost every day. I know you're doing a great job of being a dad and mom.

Having lost a spouse, I know there's nothing anybody can say or do to make things better. Holidays will be tough. Some days, you'll feel like you've been hit with a ton of bricks for no reason at all. You're a strong Christian man and God will give you the strength to see all of this through. I pray for you often. We both love you.

We had hoped to get back to see you soon but it doesn't look like we're going to make it until maybe June. If you need us before, please let me know and we'll just make it happen. Take care of yourself and call anytime you want. We're here for you.

Cassius and Wanda

Name: Adrienne Schiele
E-Mail: schielefamily@cox.net
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 19:01:18

Comments

Great website. This is an excellent idea to keep from answering the same questions over again. Our prayers are with all of you.
Please email me if you need anything.

Name: Jackie Wszalek
E-Mail: jackie@fastprint-phx.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 16:04:12

Comments

Hey Dave,

Within our internet prayer circle (over 1000 at this time), we have kept you and the girls in our prayers. We thanked God for blessing you and keeping you in His loving embrace. From all accounts, it looks like the prayers are being answered.

Heidi and I shared a number of NAWIC memories and my hope is that I touched her life as much as she touched mine.

Please know that I am willing to watch the girls. Although I live a bit away, just call. I would enjoy the opportunity to spend time with the girls and to give you some weekend time for rest, shopping, or playing. Don't hesitate to call if you need anything!

Name: Darlene Conrad
E-Mail:
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 15:41:19

Comments

Name: Erika Stevens
E-Mail:
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 15:02:07

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Name: Brian Stevens
E-Mail: brian.stevens.nhw0@statefarm.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 14:46:03

Comments

My office team and I want to send our condolences to the Eckles family. Dave, Mary and Sarah will continue to be in our prayers.

Name: Anna Perez
E-Mail: aperez@calence.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 13:14:31

Comments

Dave, Sarah and Mary,

Words fail me -- this site is so beautiful and I was smiling through tears looking at the photos of your beautiful family. The girls are blessed to have a dad as amazing as you.

I don't live far away and I know you're surrounded by those who are dear to you at all times, but if there's ever anything that my husband or I can do to help, please don't hesitate to give me a call.

With love,

Anna

Name: Karen Goetz
E-Mail: kgoetz@azcc.org
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 12:30:48

Comments

Dave- What a nice tribute to Heidi and a wonderful way to keep up with your family. Love seeing the pictures of Heidi and the girls.

Name: Laureen Song
E-Mail: lsong@pittmanandmurdough.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 12:18:50

Comments

Hi Dave,

I hope you and the girls are doing well. The website is beautiful, great job! I am keeping all of you in my prayers.

Love, Laureen

Name: Jay & Cindy Torgerson
E-Mail: jayt@qualcomm.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 12:10:48

Comments

Dave,

We are thinking and praying for you and your family. God will do special and miraculous things for you and through when you trust in Him.

Name: cheryl lee
E-Mail: cheryl.lee@weyerhaeuser.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 11:10:14

Comments

Dave, this is PRECIOUS!!! What an incredible expression of love and devotion. I'm sure it's provided you much comfort as well being able to share your beautiful family with all of us.

Heidi would be honored and proud of you and the girls.

Thanks for sharing her with us.

Cheryl

Name: Regina Wade
E-Mail: Wade918@bellsouth.net
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 11:01:54

Comments

Hi Dave,

Byron speaks of you and Heidi often. Unfortunately, I was not privileged to meet Heidi, but I know that she is a very special person just through the joy and love with which Byron speaks of her. Know that you are in our family's prayers. We think of you often. If I can ever help in any way, don't hesitate. Hopefully someday, I'll have the opportunity to meet you and the girls. Peace be with you.
Love,

Regina

Name: Peggy Krueger
E-Mail: pkrueger@calence.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 10:17:17

Comments

Dave,

This is a wonderful way to stay in touch and to know how you are. The pictures are beautiful and I can see through Heidi's eyes the love of her family and how special you all were to her. Rest assured that she is watching you. (I guess I got wordy and tried to put this all in one email) Take care

Peggy & Rollie

Name: Kathy Carmody
E-Mail: kathy.carmody@jetblue.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 10:00:59

Comments

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Name: Julie Thompson
E-Mail: Julie.Thompson@TeamRFC.org
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 09:51:07

Comments

What an awesome way to honor Heidi and keep people updated. You are amazing! Love you and the girls - Julie

Name: Mike Donofrio
E-Mail: mike.donofrio@desertschools.org
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 09:45:13

Comments

Hi Dave,

Just wanted to send my (and my families) condolences to you and your family.

This is not normally something you would hear coming from a Client to a Vendor but if you need anything feel free to ask :) Just don't make it anything to difficult or I will need to call Calence to help :) (sorry, that's the best humor I can come up with ATM)

Warmest Regards,
Mike D'Onofrio

Name: Barbie Gopperton
E-Mail: bgopperton@azcc.org
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 09:27:35

Comments

Thanks Dave.. The pictures of Heidi are beautiful.
Thanks for the up-date, we pray for you and wonder how you are doing. The new picture of Sarah is just beautiful!

Hope your Easter was good, I know those first holidays can be so painful..

Name: Krista Mirra
E-Mail: kmirra@calence.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 09:02:50

Comments

Wow, Dave! What a fantastic website! It was so great to see you again and to finally meet Sarah Grace. I'm amazed at how strong of a man you are and how deep your faith is. It was nice to see you at church on Easter Sunday although I didn't get a chance to speak with you.

Remember to call anytime and I'm thinking of you always!

Krista

Name: Carol (Irons) Kahn
E-Mail: carol-jeff.k@cox.net
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 09:00:01

Comments

Dave,

Sally told me about your loss a few weeks ago, and needles to say I was stunned. I've been remembering you and your family in my prayers.

Thanks so much for putting this webpage together. I never had the opportunity to meet Heidi, but I remember you telling us the story of how you proposed to her -- it was obvious how much you truly loved her, and that certainly shines through in this webpage.

It's been a number of years since the "Andersen days". It's amazing how much has happened in that time. Sally and I still work pretty close -- it's nice to have a friend like her close by at the office.

Your girls are just beautiful, and I'm so glad you have both of them to keep your memories of Heidi even closer. I'm sure you are a wonderful dad!

Please take care of yourself, and as you said, take some time to grieve from time to time as it's all part of healing. I know from personal experience how difficult it is to lose someone so close to you. I also know that as painful as it is, that as time goes on you become a much stronger and more, how do I say this, more appreciative of all aspects of life.

Thanks again for sharing this with us. It's a wonderful tribute to your love for Heidi and your family.

My best to you & the girls -- I'll continue to remember you in my prayers....Carol

Name: Todd Benzer
E-Mail: zoner1@cox.net
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 08:38:39

Comments

Hi Dave,

The memorial website you have set up is awesome!

The Lord is surely using your life as an example of true Christian character.

I am sure you get this a lot (that is a good thing I am sure), but don't hesitate to call myself or Susan if you need anything. We are only a couple of miles away. If you want to just get out of the house, catch a movie or go watch a game and get some wings, let me know, Susan and the girls would love to babysit for a couple of hours.

Resthaven is very close to where I work and I have taken the opportunity to visit, it is a beautiful place.

Take care Dave, I have and will continue to pray for you as you deal with the loss of Heidi.

Your brother in Christ,

Todd

Name: Kathy & Tom Meyer
E-Mail: kathymeyer777@msn.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 08:34:24

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Dave;
(I apologize for all spelling and grammatical errors ahead of time!)
This site is welcoming, heartwarming and informative. It brought me to tears. I wish I could say or do something to make it all go away, but obviously God has other plans so I guess we oughta trust that He knows what He is doing. There are so many things I want to say. Some in astonishment; some to comfort. I know we lost contact through the years, but you have always been one of the very few men in this world that I hold with such high regard. Therefore, I was so happy for you to have found love with Heidi. You deserve it. Then when I heard you had Mary, I was so happy for the three of you. When I heard at a stamping class, from Heidi that she was pregnant a second time, I was elated that you were having the family you always wanted. I guess this is one of those times when the old saying fits so well . . . It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

Your time to come, as a single Dad of two young girls will take courage and stamina and God knew you were just the man who could handle it. I know you trust God, so have peace that He has faith in you to do this job. Remember that all "Moms" have their days that they want to pull their hair out, but don't have the energy! Also, remember it is a strength to know your weaknesses. So identify them and then don't be afraid or think it is a weakness to ask for help.

I hope I have not been presumptuous. I can only begin to imagine your pain. Be patient with yourself. Do not hesitate to call when you need help.

In Him,
~Kathy

Name: Michele Green
E-Mail: mgreen@calence.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 08:31:04

Comments

Bless you Dave and your beautiful family. It is so incredibly encouraging to hear and see how strong your faith is and the way the Lord blesses us. Something we all take for granted so often.

Name: Andrea Cottrell
E-Mail: cacottrell@cox.net
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 08:23:51

Comments

Wonderful tribute and update. All of us pray for you daily and we are ready whenever you need anything.

Name: Dwayne Till
E-Mail: dwayne.till@cepm-us.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 08:12:54

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Name: Karen Rupnick
E-Mail: karen.rupnick@netwolves.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 08:09:05

Comments

Dave, what a wonderful tribute to Heidi! I had no idea and feel blessed that you passed the information to include me. Please believe that our family will keep you and the girls in our prayers. You are a great dad to give the girls such a gift of your time and effort. Sara is beautiful!

Name: Char Paynter
E-Mail: cpaynter@dlwithers.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 07:25:59

Comments

Dave,

This is an awesome site! You are a wonderful inspiration to all of us! Always know that we hold you in our thoughts and prayers!

Char
:O)

Name: Vince Tuzzeo
E-Mail: vince_tuzzeo@beaerospace.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 07:19:35

Comments

3/28/05

Dave;

Thank you for thinking of me. It is a bit ironic, but we were thinking of you and yours on our ride to my sister's house yesterday for Easter Dinner. Then this morning I see that you sent this information. I am so grateful to you for doing so.

When I was 40, I was Mr. Mom for 6 months. As I look back, I really enjoyed it. It was the most favorite time in my life. I hope it is the name for you. Please be well.

Best Regards;

Vince

Name: Paula Gazzola
E-Mail: pgaz1@juno.com
Date: 28 Mar 2005
Time: 06:56:12

Comments

I knew Heidi for a short time through my daughter Karen Slater. In my brief conversations with her, I saw a woman who was proud of her daughter Mary and looking forward with great anticipation to the birth of Sarah Grace.

Mary and Sarah should know she loved them very much. Heidi had a great creative spirit in the spiritual bookmarks that she gave us at Sarah's baby shower and also in the Scrapbooks she planned to make for her daughters.

She was a wonderful young woman.

David, I am sure you are a capable man and you will
do a great job raising these two beautiful girls. May God bless you and guide you each day.

Fondly,

Paula Gazzola
Karen Slater's mom

Name: Ray & Amy Smith
E-Mail: amyraysmith@cox.net
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 23:57:00

Comments

This is an AWESOME testimony to Heidi and your love for her. Thanks for letting us know you created it.

The picture of Heidi holding Mary, reminds me of the last time I saw Heidi. It was after Insight for Moms @ Grace (she told us that that was her due date that particular day). I remember her holding Mary on her hip and saying goodbye to me & my kids. She was so looking forward to not being pregnant any more. I sure miss her! Amy :)

Name: Ginger Bergren
E-Mail: sbergren@cox.net
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 22:03:51

Comments

Dave,
This site is wonderful..and I saw it through tears also. I loved the pictures of you, Heidi and Mary from last year. I think this is a wonderful tribute to her and she would be proud of you for doing an online "scrapbook"! I saw Mary Saturday at the Easter egg hunt - it was a heavy, but happy moment to see Heidi's daughter walking around. We will continue to pray for you and the girls and keep in touch. May God give you all the blessing you can hold.
In His Arms,
Ginger, Scott & Haydon Bergren

Name: Jana Valle
E-Mail: jvalle@calence.com
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 21:08:02

Comments

Hi Dave,
I absolutely loved my visit to this site! Thank you! I so enjoyed seeing you and the girls last Sunday and I think about you and pray for you all every day. Sometimes, I feel sad and at all times I, too, KNOW that God will provide all the comfort, love and practicalities needed for you and your family. I have never been so moved by the events of another person's life, but with your sharing and being open and loving and strong, I am deeply inspired.

God Bless you!

Jana

Name: Karla Widger
E-Mail: jkwidger@cox.net
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 18:58:27

Comments

Hi Dave,
This website is awesome!! We are continuing to pray for you and for your girls. Hope you have a very blessed Easter celebrating the fact the Christ is Risen and hanging on to the assurance that Heidi is seeing Jesus face to face to celebrate this day!! She is in his glorious presence singing along with the angels. Have a great week -- Happy Easter!!

Name: Shane Roberts Family
E-Mail: sroberts@calence.com
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 14:54:23

Comments

Dave. Great site! Its good to see you doing what you do best. All of the best to you and your beautiful girls. Anything you need, we are only a phone call away. In Faith and Love, Shane Roberts and Family.

Name: Glen & Jeanette Smith
E-Mail: gsmith7500@qwest.net
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 14:45:54

Comments

Thanks for sharing your family with Jeanette and I. By doing this you are turning something painful into a thing of beauty and hope. We love you and the girls

Glen & Jeanette Smith from the Voyager Class

Name: Rod Peister
E-Mail: rkpeister@adelphia.net
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 14:32:19

Comments

March 27, 2005

David,

I am sorry for your loss, I cannot imagine. I am keeping you and your children in my prayers.

I married Valerie and we now have 4 children, we almost lost our first right after birth and had a scare with Val when she was delivering our fourth. Yet, God blessed and we are all OK today but we have had our moments and realize life is in His sovereign hand.

God bless you guys this Easter Sunday.

He is Risen

Rod Peister
Redlands, CA
(We knew each other at GCC years ago in the singles classes, Jed Keck informed me of your situation)

Name: Kirk Thompson
E-Mail: tenco@cox.net
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 13:09:36

Comments

What a great idea this is, Dave! It might be nice if people could send you photos to have them included on future updates. Meanwhile, we think about you all the time, and pray for you and those sweet girls. Callie and Lizzie ask about Mary all the time and can't wait to see her and play with her again.

Peace and blessings be yours this special day, my friend.

Kirk

Name: Bobbi and Jim Moss
E-Mail: bobbimoss@cox.net
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 11:59:41

Comments

You and the girls are forever in our thoughts and prayers. The website is a wonderful tribute and we will visit it often. Love, Bobbi and Jim

Name: Kay Helzer
E-Mail: nephrn1@cox.net
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 09:13:55

Comments

Heidi was a very close friend of my brother, Dave and therefore was a close friend of our family. She shared the love of scrapbooking, which is also a love of mine. It still is very hard to imagine she is gone. Last Easter Sunday was the last time I saw her at Dee's Easter breakfast.

Name: Matt Rees
E-Mail: mrees@calence.com
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 09:04:54

Comments

Great Picture! Happy Easter Dave.

Name: Stacey Kagan
E-Mail: staceyka@cox.net
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 08:13:33

Comments

My thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls Dave.
I am so very sorry to hear of Heidi's passing. May the love of God and your girls ... your friends and family ... the memories of all you shared with Heidi and the deep love that you shared with Heidi ... somehow get you through this.
My heart is with you ... Stacey

Name: Dave Norris
E-Mail: daveginanorris@yahoo.com
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 08:01:03

Comments

Dave, the website looks great! Talk to you soon. Dave

Name: Paul and Angela Lambert
E-Mail: paul.lambert3@verizon.net
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 01:24:46

Comments

Dave, this is great! I think it is an awesome tribute to such a wonderful woman and the family she loved so much.

Sorry we missed you on our trip, but we wanted to put Sarah's health first. I will send you a CD with photos from your stay here last year on vacation and also when Angela and I got to visit Heidi and Mary at your place about a year ago. Maybe you can use some of them on the site.

It is still hard even for us to think of Heidi being gone, especially looking at pictures. We can't think of what this must be like for you. God Bless you and the girls, and take care of yourself! Happy Easter - He is Risen Indeed!

Name: Darcy Scibetta
E-Mail: scibetta@cox.net
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 00:55:41

Comments

God had just brought Heidi and I together such a short time before she went to be with Him. It was amazing how instantly she and I bonded. She touched my life so richly in the time we had together and I was eagerly looking forward to the time I expected to spend with her ... I knew she had to get through the pregnancy and the early days with Sarah ... but I was excited to believe that she would soon be joining me at my scrapbooking workshops. It gave me immense joy to bless her at her shower by working with her friends to make calendar pages and to pray for Sarah. I would like to carry on that blessing by helping with the albums for the girls - whether providing the supplies as an ongoing gift or by helping do pages or teaching Dad the tricks of the trade ... my heart wants to continue the legacy that was so close to Heidi's heart. Praise God for allowing me the joy of knowing her ...

Name: Janelle Meyer
E-Mail:
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 00:32:36

Comments

For awhile Heidi and I worked in the Sunday morning nursery. She always had Mary right on her hip while walking though the nursery doors, and they both always had a smile on! Your family will always be in my prayers, and I will never forget the memories I had with Heidi! Mary-your mom was wonderful! She loved you soooo much, and cared about you completely. She was so much fun to talk with, and to hang out with in the nursery. But I know that you are still in good hands. Your daddy loves you and your baby sister. I pray that you and Sarah will grow up to be best friends, and come to know Jesus very soon in your life! Dave, I'm totally here for you guys. I can be your babysitter! Love you all!
Janelle Meyer

Name: kris sobieski
E-Mail: sepikmeri@yahoo.com
Date: 27 Mar 2005
Time: 00:22:30

Comments

good job dave, i'm glad you did this..for others and especially for you..don't forget to watch out for those grapes!
i hope we keep seeing you at moms stuff...

kris

Name: Debi Clifton
E-Mail: debiclifton@
Date: 26 Mar 2005
Time: 23:29:05

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Name: Jim and Kim Gordon
E-Mail: jgordon@usa.com
Date: 26 Mar 2005
Time: 23:27:20

Comments

Dave,

Thanks for sharing!

Name: Monica Conger
E-Mail: monicaconger@cox.net
Date: 26 Mar 2005
Time: 23:25:11

Comments

Heidi will be missed by many. May God bless you and your family.

Name: Mike Peters
E-Mail: mike@petersfamily.com
Date: 26 Mar 2005
Time: 23:09:17

Comments

Dave,

You are simply amazing! I can't imagine what it must be like for you to have lost Heidi so suddenly. I can only partially understand how difficult it is being a part time single parent having been divorced for just over a year now. Your strength is a tremendous example for all of us.

Mike

Name: Troy Gibbs
E-Mail: tgibbs@calence.com
Date: 26 Mar 2005
Time: 23:06:40

Comments

This is a beautiful tribute, Dave. Although I've never had the fortune of meeting Heidi, it's obvious she was and always will be a shining light in the world.
God's peace to you and everyone in your family.

Name: Dawn Priebe
E-Mail: priebeland@cox.net
Date: 26 Mar 2005
Time: 22:44:31

Comments

Dave, you created a truly wonderful website. Thank you! Mark and I will be traveling until 4/8/05. Please contact us when we return if you need help or just want some company to stroll with the kids. Joyce loves other kids and I think she and Mary would really enjoy the park, zoo, etc. We look forward to your call in the near future. Our thoughts are with you. Love, Dawn, Mark & Joyce Marie.

Name: Alice Horvath
E-Mail: vienna1940@icehouse.net
Date: 26 Mar 2005
Time: 22:09:09

Comments

Wonderful Idea Dave

Name: Mom & Dad
E-Mail: jwe@mfire.com
Date: 26 Mar 2005
Time: 18:49:28

Comments

David--

This is wonderful! Thanks so much for doing this. It keeps everyone informed, and a real help for you. We think of you constantly and hope you will not be overwhelmed with all you have to do. Needless to say, whatever we can do to help we are more than ready to do. We do trust that the Lord is taking care of you. Please convey our thanks to all your friends who are supporting you so well.

This Easter is a hard one, but we hope it will be special for you in some way.

Much, Much love, Mom & Dad